Where will we go from here

[TimR]

I am going to set everything up but try and wait till next Thursday or Friday to pull the trigger and have L send the initial letter. I want to see what transpires for a bit. However, if she withholds him from me at any point I will be ready to file the following day. I am sure he will come to me if she says anything in the meantime that I need to prepare for.

Funny thing about this when bio dad cheated she learned it from the kids. She knows they will not keep secrets but will volunteer the information without being asked. The fact that he is so adamant about living with me, means he will share openly about her with anyone. Just found out last night he has had several conversations with some mutual friends about how he does not want to live with his mom. OMG my heart breaks for that boy and what he must be going through.