Where will we go from here

[broke]

Tim,

I'm sorry I just read through your sitch (power was out here last night). I'm appalled by your wife's behavior. Absolutely heartbroken by it all. And, I'm so sad for you that you are asking if you were so awful if you deserved this. I can say absolutely not. But she is not only punishing you, she is also doing great damage to her children. I cannot fathom why she would want to cut you out of her children's lives. I agree with the other posters, the M has to go on the back burner. Time to fight for the kids.

My H and I saw a family therapist together to talk about parenting plan and other issues. Then we had option to bring boys in with us to the appointments. Maybe you could find one to give you some advice how to handle the sitch? I know ours was very helpful.

What are your plans right now? Talk to W first so she knows about it opening up biological dad visitation.? Have your lawyer talk to her about it? What about if your L called her L to talk about that? Go ahead and file?

I am so so sorry that you are going through this. I wish I could do more to help.