Spamming my own thread: I guess I just can't reconcile in my head the him that he's being right now and the him that I have in my head of who he can be. I guess this really is the crux of what detaching is. Letting go of that image. Letting go of it all. I hope I get there soon....
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward