Been busy lately but have been reading here and there. You are now teaching me how to detach girl.
I am still having a hard time letting it go for good. I know the road, I know I need to come to some closure, but have a lot of confusion in my little brain.
I am very proud of you, the hard work you have been putting into this is amazing. Love the energy in your life.
You are and will be a great inspiration for many other on this board Red.
The attitude from your H is exactly what confuses me with my XH. It's almost like a sick cycle. He sometimes is close, texting, finding ways to keep in touch, then he goes away, not much contact. In my case I think that he is MLC stuff, I don't really know, but if it smells like it may be it. Who knows.
The truth is that they are out and about doing their crazy stuff and we need to pull everything together and be the best of the best. So, in face of it all, I can just say that you are doing well in taking one day at a time for the moment.
Take good care after yourself honey, you are a special person and deserve to be happy.