Thanks 13. Sorry for everyone on this forum. My particular sitch is like watching a junkie slowly kill themselves. Theres nothing I can do to change their mind, I just have to be the best ME i can be and hope they see the light.

I also can't rule out that at some time IC has listened to her story and advised "well, you're not going to be able to "find yourself" in that environment". So I have to let her do her thing and hope and work for the best for my S and I.

We are all good catches as we know what REAL work is. It's a shame they couldnt make us hear before they said "I'm done"


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016