I agree w/ Vapo. My W hasn't 'went there'....yet. But if she wants S...then SHE has to do it. Plain and simple. It isn't what I want. So...I will not be party to it. I will hold myself accountable for my mistakes. I will treat her with respect in front of the kids (because they internalize the blame). But agreed...he11 no!

She did 'cake eat' on you last night. You should be pissed. Calling you 'home fast', telling you the house wasn't cleaned, then off to do 'her own thing'. You absolutely can establish a boundary against that kind of crap.

My earlier comments were more 'internal' and reflective so that you can manage the stuff better on an emotional level.

Ojap
M 13 T 15
D 11
D 11
D 9
BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015
BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015
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Currently: Limbo