We still need each other right now to get this S to go through, for each of us to act civil for the kids, for us to work together to split the house up and get paper work together. I am to be strong and just let it go and act like I am ok with it all?
Hell no. Let her do ALL the work. It is her separation, not yours. WTF should you do ANY work at all. You can just tell her you recognize her right to do her thing, but she can do the work herself. Fcuk that $hit!