Thanks vise82. It's hard to know at times but thank you for the support. I do feel I have added to my W's confusion these last couple of months which might be a good or bad thing but for the most part I do feel on a good path for myself. I have found my own confidence again, I still think about my W and the turmoil she is in. She has said she does not know who to trust... I feel she could be being manipulated by this 'friend' and have asked a trusted friend to keep looking out for her as I know I need to go dark. I will get better now she is out of the house and would be second guessing her motives and actions. Look forward to seeing. My kids again on Saturday morning. Will be the first time I see her for almost a week. Plan to have a hair cut and look smart when I pick them up.
