Still hoping for progress

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She had moved out of the bedroom. One of her parting shots was I could have gone to the other room and done the wild thing with her. Really?

I don't believe this for a second, that's bullsh!t. It's how she can assign the blame to you instead of herself.

Oh, I completely agree. She easily could have come back to the bedroom if she wanted anything to happen.

No, all of her parting shots had to do with her disappointment over sex - which more than verifies an OM. From the honeymoon to a vacation in 1999 to our 25th anniversary.

As Sandi says - the 99 amazing times are blotted out by the one bad or "meh" time. That's how they do it.

daybyday: It sounds like what you're doing is working, so don't slip back into believing the old W is entirely back. She's got a lot of ground to cover still.

I wish my W would come back even for a second, rather she seems to be doubling down on the hate, which has drifted into paranoia now. I'm almost concerned for her mental health, but since she seems to be fully functional in her professional life I'll chalk it up to whatever mental process WW do to themselves.

It sounds like your old W is still rattling around in there somewhere, and what you're doing is drawing her out.