When you think of it, we here are working on our reactions and attitudes,
working on GAL, being kind, cordial, compassionate

if we are not the person we want to be, we are actively working to better ourselves in every way

The MLCer is not working on any aspect of their personality
their main goal is to have fun or create a fantasy life with less responsibility



so it makes sense their moodiness

seems like your H wanted to make it clear at least at that moment that he is out
I think they don't want to give us false hope
I think they are very confused a lot of the time


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow