I can't really add much. Vapo hit it all. There is no reason you should get into any of this with her. I think you look at S a little different than her. In her eyes you are done. I don't care what she tells you.

I do know if you go and start bringing this up you will push her further. She will immediately want to do exactly what you are complaining about.

Read the 37 rules and your answer will be clear. The anger is yours. Not hers.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15