Thank you for the wise words Mutatio and TimR. I completely agree that it wouldn't be a wise decision to talk to the om. Too much to lose. I think it was more of me letting off steam. I don't know how or if I will be able to do it but I am trying to forgive my WW and him (having more trouble forgiving him than her). I want to alleviate myself of that burden.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016
Can certainly understand where you are coming from there. I can't say that I have not thought about paying OM a visit. It would feel so good just to have minutes. I don't think I would need it, maybe just 30 secs. But yeah more trouble than it is worth, we gotta be here for our kids and take the high road. I also know the need to let off steam. Maybe find a kick boxing class, hitting something does help relieve the stress and the thoughts.
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Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
