Wife wants to leave but still at home 2

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Morning, Si. Just dropping by. Keep at your GAL and going dark.

You are further along in your sitch than I...but I am sure you know all to well that if you allow yourself to develop expectations based on her 'apologies'...you'll be disappointed.

I'm sorry you're a bit 'off center' b/c of the apologies. If you're like me...you are clinging to any little thing for a sign of hope. That really [censored]. I get it!

Based on Thornton's (and others) advice...I've been trying to read up on Codependency and Detaching. It is one of the hardest things I've ever tried to do, emotionally. But I do believe it's healthy.