Vise, buddy, let it go. Recognize the fact that she has the right to do what she wants to do, afterall, she is divorcing you...
Any ranting from you will just come off as weak. And you have to realize, she does not give the fcuk about your feelings. What on earth would have you believe she worries about your feelings? It is all about her from now on, in her mind she has sacrificed herself for years and years and now it is time for her to be happy... I am not saying that is true, I am only pointing out what is on her mind...
And for the sake of the argument, let's assume you do speak to her about her "disrespectful" behavior, what good could possibly come out of it? I frankly see none, none what so ever. Please share with us if you see any possible benefit.
Detach and stay strong buddy, that is the only way to go...
