Hey,

So last night we had the house showing but before that I got called in to work and W texts back if I did nay cleaning? Really? I ignored it. Then she is texting me when I am getting back, really I was at work repairing broken equipment and she is asking me to come home fast.

I did come home and took the kids and dog for a walk. It was cold and we had to come back, she is telling me to stay out as the showing was still on. I came back anyway as we were all cold, and told her that.

After the open house, W comes down to where me and the kids were playing, and says she is going to head over to the gay neighbors house, some of the other neighbors were there too, she wont be long. Soon as I heard that I turned around and ignored her and focused on my kids. She was lying there was no one else there but her and him, she just said that because I said before that is wrong for her to be there alone with him.

I was so mad. Does she think having a sign on the lawn indicate that she can just ignore how I feel about this and even though she knows It hurts me and I dislike that she goes there to tenth degree, she had that nervous voice and was lying to me and was going over there anyway.

How can I trust her or have any type of relationship with here even co parent if she is going to flat out lie to me and show that she truly does not care how I feel about it. So was she waiting till the sign was up, now the other neighbors know she doesn't have to hide anymore? She was gone for an hour and half, Kids were in bed, she didn't say god night to them.

I had a five year old kid from two houses down, after I came home from work my door bell and ask why my W and I want to live apart. I told her I don't know you will have to ask my W.


I could smell something off her when she came home, it must be what his place smells like. I am so mad, I don't know what to do.

So do I confront W about this disrespectful way she hurt me last night. Or do I let it go.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016