In the last 2 months, the ex has been very erratic. At first he said he wanted to continue seeing kid during the week but was upset when I kept kid away for about 3 weeks to make sure the lice don't come back.
When kid was okay, he didnt seem as keen to have her. Once, he only gave me less than 2 hours to react to his sudden change in plans to pick kid up. He went into an angry spew when I didnt respond to him as fast as he thought I should. He kept calling and texting me and my family, and even threatened to call the cops on me. When I called back, he was almost hysterical and of course we quarrelled. I pursued to know why he was so upset. He then refused to pick up my calls.
Eventually he picked up and kept hanging up on me. Basically he rewrite history again and said that he didnt say he didnt love me the last few years and that no one is perfect.
I still dont understand his drastic reaction but guess I never will. I dont buy hus explanation that he was worried that we were in an accident. Mind reading here but I hate that whatever crap he is having with the TP, he dumps on us.
But what bugs me most is how he keeps dropping kid last minute and how he picks kid up so late from childcare and kid is akways so tired the next day.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
