She told me she is waking up wide awake in the middle of the night and that she thought she was one of those people who only needs 5 hours of sleep a night and would just start getting up because she's more tired if she goes back to bed and then told me how lots of people do it. She was talking about getting more work done. Ugh... I guess it's one more thing that shows her thinking is off.
Last night w had the kids call and was putting them to bed early. She said she needed to call her mom about her dad. I texted later to ask how he was and she called me back and told me he had cancer but it was localized and he was going in for surgery later this week. I asked how she was and how her parents were. She told me okay and thanks for asking and that she had to call her mom back. I texted her to ask if she was ok this morning and got I'm fine about an hour later. Not sure what to do with her. If I ask how she is doing she'll pull away but if I don't she will say I'm distant. I'm afraid this is going to make things worse.
Also, when I talked to the kids tonight I found out she took the them to a play date tonight with the same lady as the weekend before last so she's up to something.