Ok got it. Yes, I do notice when I get hurt by him, I go back to bad times. Although there has been some progress with him, wanting to spend family time, it's just not enough...

You nailed it, I don't want to go back to my old marriage. After ALL of this, to go back to that? Not worth it. Without help, I don't see how it could be different, it would take changes in BOTH of us. The negativity, the doom and gloom.....yuck!

Thanks for making me think some things out smile


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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