Ok got it. Yes, I do notice when I get hurt by him, I go back to bad times. Although there has been some progress with him, wanting to spend family time, it's just not enough...
You nailed it, I don't want to go back to my old marriage. After ALL of this, to go back to that? Not worth it. Without help, I don't see how it could be different, it would take changes in BOTH of us. The negativity, the doom and gloom.....yuck!
Thanks for making me think some things out
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-