IMHO and with no scientific evidence whatsoever, trust your gut. I do not mean just cause you feel it believe it. You know WAH better than anyone and if your feeling it keep very alert.

I don't know whether it is better to know or not but just stay alert. For your sake I hope that you are wrong on it, but you may also never know for sure. Keep working on you and take control of your own happiness while keeping an ear to the pavement.

Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16