Husband has mentioned 2 x that he wants to find a new job most likely in a different state. He once blamed this on me asking for child support. (Saying he cannot afford to live here)
I wonder if there is a woman he is interested in, in another state through his job?
I think that perhaps he wants me to file so that he can move to a different state guilt free. He can blame it on me. He can move away from his family through self denial and selfishness.
Right now I have no proof of this, it's just a scenario that entered my head based on something he brought up twice. I get enraged at husband. Am I paranoid and neurotic or foreseeing? This is how I think and I don't know how to get away from those types of thoughts.
Usually,if someone is not treating me fairly or with respect (husband is not) then You are supposed to leave. People will only treat you the way you allow. Me not moving on shows husband that he can continue to treat me the way he has and I will not change anything.
