Here's an important one:
-not contacting XBF, begging, pleading, asking for another chance, to reconsider, etc. At least I have the strength to say "he ended it because he couldn't handle our first fight - I have made all my apologies already. If he wants back in he knows where to find me. I'm not chasing someone that isn't interested enough."


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final