Here's an important one: -not contacting XBF, begging, pleading, asking for another chance, to reconsider, etc. At least I have the strength to say "he ended it because he couldn't handle our first fight - I have made all my apologies already. If he wants back in he knows where to find me. I'm not chasing someone that isn't interested enough."
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final