Thanks Ojap. I agree there comes a time when the M is not the priority. I can be very tenacious and have prided myself on it and I sit at my desk everyday and can make this a priority. I also have the advantage of doing the paperwork and research myself so my legal fees will be much lower.
I know this against the DB principles myself but I cannot make the M priority over the well being of S when she is telling him she is going to make it so he cannot see me.
For as ugly as she is being, I am changing my locks tomorrow and saying something to the local police to keep an eye on my house. She is not acting anywhere near rationally.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16