Hey Hope, I hope you had fun at your Barre class. How was it and what is a Barre class?
It's too painful for an old coot like me. A combo of ballet and yoga.
I'm late to the party - but it sounds as if Hope is on the right track here.
As everybody here says - believe none of what they say and half of what they do.
But you've already figured that out, haven't you Hope?
My W denied her A up to the end, while mixing it in with "it's none of your business" when I'd get close to specifics. That, mixed with a general self-satisfied smugness said everything.
You don't want to see the phone records, you don't want to see any "proof". You know deep down inside whether or not it's happening, as I did. I lived in denial for too long, choosing to believe the W instead of my heart and brain. There's no reason for extra pain at this point.
It's all about you - and you are wonderful. End of story.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)