Where will we go from here

[Ojap]

Alright, Tim. I'm probably going to be breaking some DB rules with my thoughts, as I weigh in.

Straight up. This is NO LONGER about your M. This is no longer about your WW. This is about your son(s). I know the S16 is 'poisoned'...but honestly...his real angst is probably at his mother. Not you. He has no way to process this mess.

I completely agree you need to file. And do it quickly. You just uncovered that your WW threatened your S!!! That is abuse! I know I'm not telling you (a lawyer) anything you're unaware of...

Take your 'anger' and 'pain'. Channel that into helping your Sons. The WW is NOT thinking with their best interests at heart.

So sorry, man. I can't imagine how hard that conversation must have been. Especially not to retaliate and defend yourself. Your S will understand how important that was in years to come and will respect you for it. Also...they will both be watching as you navigate these next steps. Make sure you handle yourself in a way that they can respect when they are at an age to do so.