Thank you for the wise words Mutatio and TimR. I completely agree that it wouldn't be a wise decision to talk to the om. Too much to lose. I think it was more of me letting off steam. I don't know how or if I will be able to do it but I am trying to forgive my WW and him (having more trouble forgiving him than her). I want to alleviate myself of that burden.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016
