I just realized how vague that first sentence was. DOn't worry, the romance novels are in no way helping her with her OM. Because they're pure fiction. If she expects real men to act that way, she'll be sorely disappointed. As far as upper her libido, maybe. but that'll fade too, just like the butterflies for the OM will. That's chemistry at its finest. Keep releasing the same neurotransmitters and they actually stop being effective as your neurons decrease the number of receptors.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward