Don't worry, they're not. Because again, they aren't reality. Just like you can't learn how to be good in bed by watching porn. But yes, I noticed the same things in my WH much more recently. I started this diet and he was all gung-ho about it. Claimed it was to be super supportive of me but it actually really bothered me how into it he got. Like he's this scrawny 150lb guy doing this crash diet "to support me." He had a little bit of a belly but really nothing I thought he needed to lose. Oh, and his "friend" (really his OW) came over to my house when I was out of town one night and made him a diet friendly dinner. That really bugged me. But I didn't say anything. Just mentioned that it was weird. Now it all makes sense. Of course, the irony is she didn't even do it right. Somehow thought "gluten free" pasta was no carb. I know you're struggling 13. We all are. Just know you're not alone. WE'll get through this! .
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
