Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[melweb]

Hi Cherry!! How are you?

Thanks for the pep talk. I agree--- he does still have feelings for me, but is it enough this time? I really felt after BD#1, that is what helped my sitch and there was no OW at the time. I replied to "I don't want you to hate me for me feelings" with "I will always respect your feelings." He asked me if I was ok, and said this wasn't easy and he loved me. I did reply I loved him too, because he said it first.

I guess you're right--we got caught up in the romance (and sex) and honeymoon period of reconciliation. I believed it was what we needed, and what had been missing. We have been married 21 years and always put kids, careers, moves (we've moved 8 times) first. Life just took over.

And funny you should mention hair--I have an appointment next week for a cut and color, prob some highlights. We were suppose to be going to Mexico in April, but I assume I am uninvited to that, but I am going to get some tans anyway.

So glad you stopped by. I had been thinking of you.