Hi Cali, I’m glad that you found what sounds to be a great place to live for you and your S. Sorry about the dog, I would be sad too, if I would have to leave my dog.

All these questions you are asking yourself will probably be answered at some point, after you’ve gone through the healing process.

Your W is probably going to do a lot of spinning. At least you have your own place and don’t have to witness it all the time. I’m sorry that you will still have to deal with some of it because you need to communicate with her regarding your S. As far as filing for D, I would not be in a hurry with this. I liked it how you “suggested” to your W to go ahead and file. I doubt she is going to do it though.

You are doing great, Cali. Take care.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state