Vapo, I'm not exactly sure what you mean by that?

Ny, that's awesome advise and right along the lines of what I was planning. As far as her family, I haven't spoke to any of them since this happened. The mutual friends haven't heard much of anything from me in a long time either.

Thorn, thanks for keeping up on this with me buddy!


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home