Hi all, I'm in a similar situation. I spoke with my DB coach today and she reminded me to always be upbeat and cheerful, not to talk to mutual friends or her family about the situation, to act as if I've had a revelation and am moving on, not to avoid interactions, but not to initiate them either, and always to end conversations or email or text threads first (i.e. don't be the last one to respond if possible.) Also, not to try and solve her problems, just listen and validate. (She's been telling me she's anxious and depressed and worried that she made a mistake with the ow. Ha!) And to remember what she fell in love with in me, and manifest that person. She also recommended that I re-read Sandi's 37 rules and commit to them for one month, starting today. She said NC doesn't have to be completely dark, just dim. It's OK to interact if we can embody the 37 rules and not pursue. Hope that helps. I'm going to keep following you and see how it goes for you!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
