I understand completely where you are coming from and sorry you have to deal with such anger. I have the exact same thing going on. WW specifically said all she wants to do right now is hurt me. I would like to tell her she already killed me, what more could she do. Oh but she will find a way and a time that I am not protected and then strike.

You know it is bad enough they cheat and destroy us but then to do to validate themselves is whole other level of terrible.

I know its an addiction and I should not react but wow if we are successful we should be up for sainthood.

Know there are others here going through the same thing and feeling the same way. Just make sure to vent here and not blow up at her. I wish you strength, brother!


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16