Thank you for sharing your story. For some reason, I'm having a really bad day today. It's the worst I've had in a very long time - frankly, I thought I was done with being this low. However, my IC said she really thinks I should consider it only 2 months over since that's when I confirmed the affair. She also said I'm incredibly hard on myself by thinking I'm a failure that I couldn't save my marriage and family.
Your story sounds similar - it was all about H's happiness. To hell with the kids or me. No effort to fix it and had an affair to fill himself up.
I look forward to dropping the rope. I'm so glad you are feeling better. It gives me hope that I'll be happy again. Someday. Thanks for reaching out.
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
