She is ready to move forward with the divorce. We have discussed dividing our simple finances and how we are going to handle the house. I am of the opinion that the honorable thing to do is let her stay at the house with the kids and pay out half of the equity to me over an agreed amount of time. She wants to work out a 50 - 50 custody arrangement and isn't looking for any child support other than helping with the kids' extracurricular activities.

I still can't believe or understand how this happened completely, and I always promised myself that I would never put my kids in this type of situation. I'm not done yet and we still have a minimum of 60 days before anything could be final, but we'll see. Thanks to everyone here for the continued support.


M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7
T: 18
M:13
I suspect problem: 8/15
ILYB: 9/15
Never quit on love
I ask her to leave:10/15