"Sorry to hijack Spark, but how does this all work if the your WAS says the A is over or is still hiding it?"

HopeRB, I think if the R talk starts and WAS says the A is over or still hiding it, you should refer to Sandi's conditions and start with the End the A letter. Make that your new 1# condition to R.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16