Job, yes, I need to remember about the memory issue with MLCer. I will try to post more about me. I will also try to catch up on other threads. I didn’t not have internet for a few days (at the vacation home place).

Quick update, I hope… Went to the vacation home last weekend with my neighbor friend. I can call her a friend now, not only a neighbor, since she is the one who is still supportive of me.

We arrived on Thursday night at about 8:30 pm and wanted to get something to eat. So, we sent to the pavilion on the property where I knew they would still have some food. We walked in into an end of a karaoke night… And… guess who was there… H was there with his friends, including this crazy woman and her H, my (and his) friends from the condo next door. My GF was a bit confused at first, she didn’t know what to do. I told her that is perfectly fine to walk and say hi to my H. So she did. I walked and greeted the condo neighbors. The crazy woman approached us and said hi to her and we exchanged the hugs. My condo neighbors were right next to H. He seemed to be very happy to see me and I actually got a GOOD hug. Then I and my GF went and sat at the table, ordered the food and listened to the remainder of the karaoke night. H’s brother was not there, he went back to the condo before we arrived, so I didn’t get to see him.

We had a great weekend with my GF/neighbor! We went to see the race, then relaxed by the pool. We went to the sea every day. We went to town with my other GF (mutual friends), we went for dinner to my mutual friends’ house one night. My son with his GF and four other friends showed up on Friday night. I haven’t seen them after that, since we all did our own things. I haven’t seen H and his brother for the rest of the weekend. Which was nice, but also brought a bit of sadness… But, I didn’t have any expectations, so it was OK.

And then the weird thing happened… After we crossed the border, I turned my phone on and there was a text from H. He was asking me if I has any discount codes for a one way car rental… WHAT???????? I replied to him after I got back home, that I would look and see if I still have these. I used to be able to find the greatest deals on car rentals by plugging in some corporate rates and coupons I found on the Internet. I used to book all H’s rental cars and hotels. So, I tried a few codes and coupons I had and sent H an e-mail with the best one this morning. When I came to work I had another text from H telling me that this code didn’t work for him, maybe because he on Mexican IP address. So, I decided to offer my help and asked him if he would like me to try this code. He said yes…

At the end, we had an entire morning exchanging the texts. The code I gave him didn’t work for me either, so put a different one and got a decent price. The bottom line is that I booked the car rental for him, just like in the old days… Feel free to give me 2x4, since by doing this I enabled H once more and made his life easier… It was kind of spontaneous for me though. I did the same favor to my GF in the past too, booking her car rental. So, I figured that I would do this for H. After all, this is something completely “new”… he hasn’t asked me to do this kind of favor for him after the BD. Not sure what gotten into him and why he decided to ask me for help… Maybe he “woke up” and thought that he was back in the times when I was still his W, LOL. I thought that it would not hurt to help him this time… and see where it goes… I can always say NO in the future, but at least I have a choice… I have no expectations, it is like I helped a good friend. I have to admit thought that it feels good to know that I’m the last resort when H needs some help.

I think I’m coming down with some cold or flu… I think that I was so overstressed in the last couple of month or so, I was going on an auto pilot. This little vacation gave me so much needed rest, but I’m afraid that it was not enough. So my body is telling me to take more rest. I am working from home today.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state