hey Ojap,

I agree keep your eyes open but also don't forget to look after yourself.

Its so hard to know what to do with out EA or A proof. Just stick to a plan until evidence tell you other wise. Some people on here will say err on the side of there is an affair. Hope for the best, plan for the worst.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016