Hope,

I totally get where you are coming from.

However, my IC told me life tends to unfold a little at time and we can't see that far ahead.

I was listening to an audio CD in my car and they were talking about how you can drive from California to NY in the middle of the night only seeing 200 ft ahead of you.

Think about that for a minute. You have no idea what's around the next corner. Sure, we all assume it's just another bend in the road, but there could also be something extraordinary there as well.

I know you believe in God, me too. He has a plan for you. But right now, he wants to mold you into who you are supposed to be. People rarely change without pain.

It takes extreme pain to refine who we are meant to be. So stop trying to control everything (detach) and keep your car on the road, you don't know what's around the bend.