Sigh, I don't want a D because I am still madly in love with this man. But at this point, not sure if/when I'll have kids or get that kind of connection with someone. And I need to be over him in order to get those things. I know good things are ahead but when I deal with the reality, I get discouraged b/c I know that it's going to be a long, less-traveled road ahead. [/quote]
Hope, I have been following your sitch and i struggle with the "passing of time" realities also. I am not a spring chicken and if this thing drags on and on with no progress, I become an older spring chicken.
I guess how much is enough, is the question we have to come to terms with.
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016