Last night we had the real estate agent over and now the house is going to be listed. We have a sign on the lawn. I thought W wanted to not have a sign and kids were there and I am saying to W that she said she didn't want a sign at first. S7 starts saying we cant sell with out a sign, and he is so excited to move. I don't think he gets what is happening fully or something. I am glad he is taking it so well but I don't understand why he is happy to move.
Its like a another kick in the teeth to have that sign up.
So I am contacting my Lawyer today to give an update and make sure what we are doing is ok.
Vapo, We both are moving out of the house and getting new places. S papers are in process but yes nothing signed yet, W lawyer is drafting it up. Seems to be taking a while.
As for the inlaws buying me out, I mentioned that to W that it feels like that, she jumped on me figuratively and defended her dad saying her just wants to help both of us equally. But the money is only there if I don't take W to court.
She is asking me if I can do a showing of the house tonight. I feel like I want to tell her to go to heck, she wanted the S she can do it. But I feel like I am past that. There is too much at stake to start that. Plus I agreed to sell the house, but I had no choice it was going to happen either now or later.
This is what I want to reply back:
I don't want to show the house but you are forcing me. is this the only thing you care about selling the house? Its like back when I owned the house with my brother and you came in to my life. We were not married yet but you wanted me to sell that house, and for what. All that came from that was I lost contact from my family, lost a lot of money, lost a lot of time spent working on that house. And for what for you to just do the same now with this house.
I know I cant send that.
What I should respond with:
OK
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016