Now, the real work begins...Part III

[broke]

So glad the forum is back up because I missed you guys!

Feeling melancholy today....fighting to get to Saturday because that means I have been DB'ing for one month. No begging, pursuing or initiating talks of reconciliation in one month. That is a milestone for me. Because, I probably mentioned reconciling at least once a month in the past 7.5 months. Not sure it is doing much good for my M, but I do think it is helping me focus on me and what I want to change to be stronger and more independent.

A little sad because I got an email from H about moving all of my recurring expenses from our joint credit card to my own. Since filing for D, he wants to keep our finances separate (although we are still paying for them out of our joint checking accounts). Just seems that little by litte, bit by bit, he is removing me from all aspects of his life.