Wow, mind is blown 14

[broke]

I struggle with the friends vs. not friends as well. Since I stop acting on all my anger about 3 weeks ago, it seems like my WAH thinks we are best buddies. I am trying to walk the line of not being cold, but also not being his friend. I put together some boundaries that I am trying to stick to and I am focused on being civil yet abrupt. It's very tricky. But, sounds like you have a good plan to not pursue - I know it must be so tough after you thought you were on the path to reconciliation. Keep it up