HopeRB, I think you are on the right track. I would concur with everyone else's advice and I think you do too. No doubt it will be hard but you are probably better off for your own mental status. Let him miss you and come to terms with what he has done and where he is at.

I may have shed a tear or two catching up on your sitch from yesterday (for some reason I could not get on forums last night). It is such a tough decision to just let go and take a step forward. I don't know when I have more anxiety when I am in contact or not. Keep posting and letting us know how you are doing.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16