I hate to even bring this little thing up but what I am doing at the moment seems like I am creating more distance with W still at home.

Kissing when greeting her home from work etc. That was a must for both for entire 25 years of M. I have stopped, but she still continues to come up and linger as if waiting. I feel horrible as I kind of brush past her to settle in.

It seems like since I stopped we really show no affection at all and doesnt that just make it easier on her to adjust to doing without me? Maybe it's just a fear thing to me of losing that one thing that was always assured.

On the other hand, she has said that she doesnt want to be married, but is still in house and dragging her feet to S. Any help and thoughts would be appreciated.


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016