The start of my happiness 4

[Tyler12]

Thank you all for your advice. I also see no point in bringing it up. I don't expect her to say anything like that again anytime soon, if it does I do want to address it. I like your way of doing it keefa. Taking the time to write out responses and it is possible it will help me work through it. If not I will be prepared like in mowgli's case.

I did talk to W today about the boys and time with them. She had seemed to be against 50/50. And I had written out my view and feeling on the sitch in preparation. However she talked about going 50/50 and how it works and how we will make it work. We were able to discuss it and I am excited to have the boys for a week. It may have helped that I had care already set up for them while I work and had reassured her that our ideas in raising the boys hasn't changed from what we were doing when we were together.

I also expressed that I would like to try this for a month or 2 and we can revisit how it is effecting the boys. I really don't want them to feel they are being bounced back and forth.

During the talk she brought up the car again. This time i like the way I handled it. She mentioned she had taken it in and there was a more wrong with it than she thought. I said that is too bad, anyway about the boys.....

So it was good. Going to talk to S3 tonight. Love talking to that little guy. My children are such a joy in my life.

Since tonight is V-ball night I told her I can't talk after 7 tonight as I would be out. An left it at that. I don't care if she thought about what it meant, it is nice to be able to vocalize I have a life too.