Great post pig pen

Regarding the topic of death... I have never really been able to end a relationship because, to me it feels like electively choosing death. It is obviously very hurtful that spouse has electively chosen death, in a sense, It's a bit different then rejection.

Anyway, was hoping you could offer insight regarding this...

In many of our cases (especially husbands leaving) spouses had serious health issues or had to deal with recent death in the family. Why does that make them Want to leave instead of recognize the fact that life is short, let me me work with and appreciate the things that are truly important. (Especially since it's not just spouse that are being left but kids as well). What is going on psychologically?


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer