The bad: Whenever I have interactions like this with H, I have major meltdowns the next day. ..and I did. It just brings up so many emotions. I also found out yesterday through D25 that H bought some new furniture for his house. That sent me into a tailspin. He is making it his "home" without me. The realization that this D is most probably going to happen hit me so hard.

I feel ya. Its that hopeful feeling we get after we get the almost normal H who was our best friend for years. Our other half. Then we get back to NC and it sinks in that the R is not the way it was. I had a day moving my D25 with H, us working as a team again. We did an extended lunch, walk around her community, coffee, drinks and sushi...all the while having a good time. He called the next day to chat, twice.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.