Still NC - Trying to move forward

[broke]

Well, that's an interesting question because it makes me feel foolish because I have plenty of signs that it is over:

1. he's having an affair and won't give it up
2. he filed for divorce
3. he bought a house
4. he told boys he was proceeding with D

So, I am not sure what other sign I should probably have. But, I just can't seem to "drop the rope"....7 months just doesn't seem like enough for a 25-year relationship and family, but H doesn't seemed moved to reconcile. Can't wait to see what others say because I am pretty sure my IC thinks I am nuts to still have hope.