Agreed, otw. It is so easy to question every decision or move made during this nightmare. I truly think that had I found divorce busting at the beginning I would have had a better shot at reconciling with the H. I made so many mistakes! But, I still have hope, not that I want to, but it isn't easy to give up on 25 years together after 7 months. Thanks, otw, for sharing. It is so helpful to know that others are going through the same thing....

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16