I completely agree....it is a fine line to walk:

detach, go dark, 180's, boundaries, validation, friends vs. distant neighbors

Sometimes I feel like I am walking in a relationship minefield


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16